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Do we have a moral duty to have children?
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Duke_of_BOOM! Housebound


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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 22:59 Post subject: Do we have a Moral Duty to have children? |
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I thought it was a good question, so I will pass it along.
| Quote: | | Do we have a moral duty to reproduce? Seems like a strange question. The decision to have children is an intensely personal one. The community plays no part. We even frown on parents who put pressure on a couple to produce grandkids. Yet, as the case of Europe shows [a rapidly declining birth rate], the community has a fundamental interest in the outcome. If enough private choices turn against reproduction, the community dies. |
http://radio.weblogs.com/0143188/2005/01/29.html
So, do we have a moral duty to have Children? _________________
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Dom Pig. Want?


Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 4954 Location: Dom's School of Smooth. Places available now.
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 23:05 Post subject: |
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I don't think we need to worry about extinction through under-population just yet.
In an ideal world, I'd say it was a moral duty not to have kids unless you can provide for them. I know that I'll want kids someday, but I would need to be sure that they'd be taken care of.
My parents would probably have liked three kids, but they knew that they couldn't afford to have more than two, hence my brother and I. _________________
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StePalminall Pig. Want?


Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 4520 Location: Loughborough, UK
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 23:06 Post subject: |
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Well, I don't reckon there's such thing as a "moral duty" anymore, or if there is one, it's become a rarer creature. Many people will agree on a lesser number of moral rights and wrongs, but since society is becoming more individualist, we've developed our own sets of moral values, and feel that questioning the moral values of another isn't vaild, aapart from extreme cases. I know I use this as an explanation for everything in here, but dissolution of grand narravites, in particular religion, has led to this, in my opinion. Whether this is a good or bad thing, I'm undecided. _________________
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moussaka_thief Made of Win

Joined: 04 Aug 2005 Posts: 3985 Location: putain on stage
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 23:14 Post subject: |
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| There are far too many of us anyhow. The population is immense and the rate of growth is unsustainable. If the traditional european community declines, something else will replace it. People are people, meh. I'm not particularly bothered if it changes, humanity is unlikely to stop reproducing loads any time soon. |
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Berserk Sushi Mangina.

Joined: 14 Jun 2002 Posts: 37365 Location: NYFC
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 23:19 Post subject: |
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I don't see the dissipation of the community through benevolent private choices to be a bad thing. It certainly doesn't directly harm the community or any of its members anyway.
So- "No." _________________
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Spunj Monkey Observer


Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 36 Location: Central Belt
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 23:23 Post subject: |
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| Yes. If you don't, someone else will, and they're unlikely to do such a good job of raising them as you. It's your only chance to ensure the next generation are halfway decent. |
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StePalminall Pig. Want?


Joined: 01 Feb 2005 Posts: 4520 Location: Loughborough, UK
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 23:29 Post subject: |
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I wouldn't say "the community" is dissapiating. True, in the area of moral sense, it has less input, but, in this country at least, the community is playing it's part in other areas with more strength than in the past. In particular, I'd say the areas of crime prevention and resolution ensure the community hasn't been lost in the recent wave of government centralisation policies, and in fact, the most recent acts connected to law and order have started to decentralized operations and delegated them to community operations. _________________
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Gogo Jojo African Clawed Frog


Joined: 19 Aug 2003 Posts: 2564 Location: doin' the happy dance
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Posted: Tue Mar 14, 2006 23:30 Post subject: |
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I'd be far more worried about a civilization becoming lost due to illegal immigration and the like, rather then from a lack of kids.
Although if the question were "Do we have a Moral Duty to have children and raise them well," the answer might be more interesting. After all -- hundreds and thousands of children are being born each day. It seems a fair amount are born into less-than-ideal circumstances, i.e. broken homes, third-world countries, abusive/alcoholic/drug-addicted parents and the like.
Would it truly strengthen society to eliminate these unfortunate circumstances? Or are situations like this a necessary evil, which in turn teach children values they wouldn't otherwise learn?
Hmmm... _________________
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Duke_of_BOOM! Housebound


Joined: 03 Jan 2003 Posts: 1040 Location: Compton Terrace
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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 20:53 Post subject: |
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| Gogo Jojo wrote: | I'd be far more worried about a civilization becoming lost due to illegal immigration and the like, rather then from a lack of kids.
Although if the question were "Do we have a Moral Duty to have children and raise them well," the answer might be more interesting. After all -- hundreds and thousands of children are being born each day. It seems a fair amount are born into less-than-ideal circumstances, i.e. broken homes, third-world countries, abusive/alcoholic/drug-addicted parents and the like.
Would it truly strengthen society to eliminate these unfortunate circumstances? Or are situations like this a necessary evil, which in turn teach children values they wouldn't otherwise learn?
Hmmm... | It really is a catch-22, as impoverished families are more likely to have more children due to high infant-youth mortality rates, the need for a traditional agrarian workforce, and are generally less educated. The parents are less to be able to provide for their children, the children are not provided for at all, or the children are given handicaps to future success. These Children in turn grow up to be impoverished adults.
Economic advancement reduces the birth rates, increase education levels, and herald mechanized agriculture. Giving a better environment in which to raise children. (South Korea is a very good example of this.)
The debate would be how much to weigh economically successful behavior versus actual material wealth. _________________
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Duke_of_BOOM! Housebound


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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 21:05 Post subject: |
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| Berserk Sushi wrote: | I don't see the dissipation of the community through benevolent private choices to be a bad thing. It certainly doesn't directly harm the community or any of its members anyway.
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I am inclined to agree with the fist part of this, the volentary dissipation of the community is not a bad thing. However I think we have to accept that the communities will die/drastically change as a consequence of our choice. But the community is not an end on to itself, it is an association to meet the needs of it's members. _________________
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Berserk Sushi Mangina.

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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 21:11 Post subject: |
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Precisely. That, and the actual distinction of what the boundaries of the community are, is arbitrary. A neighborhood? A city? Country? Continent? Ethnic group? _________________
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Duke_of_BOOM! Housebound


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Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2006 02:43 Post subject: |
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It really is quite drastic. Take Japan for example, they have a birth rate of 1.7 per couple. Zero population growth requires a birth rate of about 2.2 children per couple. This translates to a 25% drop in population in a generation if the trends hold steady.
It really is not that apparent in Japan, as they do not have that much in the way of immigration, but the social dynamics of countries like France that do have a high immigrant population will change, along with norms and values.
This is why I think Europe is starting to push anti-immigrant legislation. _________________
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Hof ZOMG tittay's as big as you're head!!!

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Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2006 03:00 Post subject: |
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Berserk Sushi Mangina.

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Posted: Sat Mar 18, 2006 06:43 Post subject: |
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| Duke_of_BOOM! wrote: | | It really is quite drastic. Take Japan for example, they have a birth rate of 1.7 per couple. Zero population growth requires a birth rate of about 2.2 children per couple. This translates to a 25% drop in population in a generation if the trends hold steady. | Well while we're working on that specific example, Japan of all places could stand a 25% population drop (assuming no-one immigrates into Japan for a generation). However it's important to note that population growth statistics for a nation are hardly uniform across the nation. If the bulk of that 25% decrease were in certain areas the urban landscape as a whole could become much more sustainable and healthy as a result.
Alternatively, if it happened in other areas, say small villages, it wouldn't really matter, would it?
| Quote: | | This is why I think Europe is starting to push anti-immigrant legislation. | I always simplified it to "those dirty racist prats." _________________
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carrie680 Observer

Joined: 31 Jul 2005 Posts: 46 Location: MA
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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 04:01 Post subject: |
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| Gogo Jojo wrote: |
Although if the question were "Do we have a Moral Duty to have children and raise them well," the answer might be more interesting. After all -- hundreds and thousands of children are being born each day. It seems a fair amount are born into less-than-ideal circumstances, i.e. broken homes, third-world countries, abusive/alcoholic/drug-addicted parents and the like.
Would it truly strengthen society to eliminate these unfortunate circumstances? Or are situations like this a necessary evil, which in turn teach children values they wouldn't otherwise learn?
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I agree. I don't think that people should feel morally obligated because there are many people in the world that would prove to be unfit parents. |
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nukelavee Voice of the Whirlwind

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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 18:25 Post subject: |
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no, i don't think we have a duty to have children.
here's the thing - morals are, for any given community, a consensus of behaviour for that community...the norm, if you will.
if the norm for a community (village, town, state, country....whatever) is not to breed... there you go. ie, if any given community is shrinking, then the consensus of behaviour is not to breed, and the shrinking of the population is evidence that the population is ok with shrinking.
on the other hand... from a judeo-christian/islamic point of view, god said to breed.
so - BREED! unless you are a single mother, in which case you will burn in hell forever, along with baby eaters and whore-mongers. of course, aborting will send you to hell, too, and you already had carnal relations, so the best bet is to sew your vagina shut until marriage. _________________ only fools put their hands back in the flame
to see how it burns.
no, i don't want to hear you say
that it won't happen like this anymore.... |
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R Oldbie.

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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 18:38 Post subject: |
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Children don't serve as large a purpose for society any more anyways, since they no longer are needed to work the family land, provide for the elderly and gotta have lots of them since most will die before adulthood. All industrialized societies are seeing a drop in population since people aren't having 2.1 kids any more. Emigration from sub-industrial nations offsets that though, since they're still popping out kids for the same reasons industrial nations used to do so. _________________
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Duke_of_BOOM! Housebound


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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 21:46 Post subject: |
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| Berserk Sushi wrote: | | Duke_of_BOOM! wrote: | | It really is quite drastic. Take Japan for example, they have a birth rate of 1.7 per couple. Zero population growth requires a birth rate of about 2.2 children per couple. This translates to a 25% drop in population in a generation if the trends hold steady. | Well while we're working on that specific example, Japan of all places could stand a 25% population drop (assuming no-one immigrates into Japan for a generation). However it's important to note that population growth statistics for a nation are hardly uniform across the nation. If the bulk of that 25% decrease were in certain areas the urban landscape as a whole could become much more sustainable and healthy as a result.
Alternatively, if it happened in other areas, say small villages, it wouldn't really matter, would it? |
It's not a bad thing (unless you value a stagnant society), but the culture of Japan is currently shifting toward a heavy Korean influence as the Koreans represent the largest number of "migrant workers."
The population drop in the case of native population in "developed" societies is mostly in urban populations, in developing nations the drop is mostly rural (Mexico is down to 2.8 children per couple).
| Quote: | | Quote: | | This is why I think Europe is starting to push anti-immigrant legislation. | I always simplified it to "those dirty racist prats." |
I think the term "exploitative bigots" is more descriptive but that is not the issue. _________________
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